Growing up, I didn't have a male role model in my life. My father was hardly around, my brother was in/out of prison, and my uncles had their own families to support mentally and emotionally, so I didn't have a good man in my life to show me what "Real Love" is, and I ended up learning a lot the hard way. I blame none of my mistakes I made on anyone, but a young black woman needs a "Good male Role Model" to show her the difference between "Salt and Sugar". After reading my book you will totally understand why.